SOULMATES: QUESTIONS ANSWERED

 

Inner Child Tarot Card, The Loverss

2/18/21 My February Monthly Zoom Talk was on

SOULMATES, TWIN FLAME MATES, HEART MATES AND KARMIC TIES. 

THESE WERE THE QUESTIONS ASKED BY PARTICIPANTS

My answer might be what you've been wondering about Soul Mates, Love Mates and/or Twin Mates.

Did you know you can have more than one soulmate although in one life time, only one twin flame mate? 

 Question:  Can you decide never to interact with someone because I am not open to any further contact and is that the same as not forgiving them?

June's Answer: Yes, you can decide not to have further contact with a person that harmed you. That is creating a healthy boundary.

As far as forgiving, it is said we forgive to lighten our own burden of carrying around negative thoughts. And yes, those unhappy, angry and at times, vile thoughts we harbor for those who have hurt us, often gravely, weigh us down and inner peace and true happy belly laughter, like a child. 

My own personal experience was with a long ago, what I thought would be my life partner. He was a cad (look that old term up). It took me near 40 years and his death to truly make peace with myself for choosing him and letting him hurt me repeatedly. In spirit he and I mended that time of young love life. 

 Forgive for your own happiness and to free your mind to create loving, helpful people and experiences

 Question: : Regarding who am I attracting, what if you are not attracting anyone? Harder during pandemic but am I not open to attracting someone? How to get open?

 

June's Answer: It is harder during this shelter-in-place, especially because you physically are limited to where and how to meet. Nevertheless, you can begin a relationship on line and that might even be better. Getting to really know someone's thoughts, attitudes, etc. I'd do a virtual meeting to see if it's the person who said he/she is. 

Now, about attracting. In the talk I explained how attraction contains energy, vibration and frequency. You attract what you're putting out energetically. For those who haven't spent time on this idea and did tested it, this could be difficult to understand. As said in the talk, best you raise your energy - fluff up the aura as I suggested, write affirmations, visualize -all in preparation to attract. 

Remember the ritual using candles I presented and follow through with it when your energy is at a good place.

 

Question: Can you do a ritual for a loved one rather than yourself to attract the right love?

June's Answer: Personally, I would not interfere with the karma and life lessons for another. You can do a ritual that this person be joyous, or healed. I find prayers very powerful. The reason people think prayers don't work is because most want it in their time and the way they want it. Prayers work as do spell rituals, but not always as one might think is best.

I hope that is clear to you. Yes, do a ritual, but not based on what you think the person needs or should do, but one that blesses them in life.

In April I'll give a presentation on ritual spells. Please join to learn more.

 

 Question:  If my twin flame and I were poison towards each other, shadow side was too developed, how do you figure out the point of all of that was?  There was a lack of compassion, like our heart chakras were completely closed off. 

 

June's Answer: In the part of my presentation I talk about how Twin Flames can be wonderfully whole and contribute to themselves, others and the world in most positive ways. But they also can amplify the shadow/dark side of both. 

Since you're asking the question with an understanding of what is/was lacking (compassion) and recognize the reason (heart closed) then you are not so in the dark, are you? You have enlightenment though you might not accept or know the next step to solving the situation. 

Discover the next step and be willing to take it toward a hopeful more loving twin flame relationship.

 Question: : Regarding the people candles: can I use regular candles and write my name on one and what I want to attract on the other?

 

June's Answer: Although, people or image candles are fun and can influence your visualizations and psyche you can absolutely use any candle and color to influence your mental visions and attract your intent. Candles do keep steady and clear your focus. Yes, write your name on one and your intended attraction, words or his/her name on the other. If it is to be, it will, if it is to clear the air whether the person is really for you, it hopefully will also.

Join me in April for my Ritual Spell presentation for more.

Question: June, if you find have found in this lifetime are love soulmate, but can’t be with them romantically since you are already in a romantic relationship…can you take that connection to the next lifetime and be together when both cross over.

 

June's Answer: I will say, you can. Especially if your intended love soulmate has the same recognition of an energy between you and agrees it is there. In the talk one example I gave of twin flame mates was the actors Spencer Tracy and Katherine Hepburn (if you don't know their history research it). It was obvious to many the great love the two had. But because Tracy was not in the position to commit as we, the public, would have liked it, they didn't.

No doubt they'll come back together to complete that "whole" - two separated twins - need to make one soul.

 Question : It seems like you are saying you can have several soulmates, and at the same time and that soul mates can come and go.  Is that what you are saying?

 

June's Answer: Yes. As we talked about, all relationships have an importance although there are "those" people who you're strongly pulled to and influence your life in a way you grow up, so to speak. These people from family to friends, and teachers etc help you evolve, be a better person, or even challenge you to look at yourself and how you choose people. This is the karmic tie with soulmates.

Question: Should I or would I definitely know if I’ve met my romantic love?

June's Answer: Perhaps. Sometimes our soul companions/friends can be our life partners in a romantic love relationship but time might be needed to realize that. Remember,I spoke about timing is everything for both to be open to karmically evolve through their relationship.

Then again, that WOW hit when you meet your romantic love is powerful. Again though, take time to get to know the person and know if you are wiling to take up the challenges all love relationships have. 

Question: WHAT'S NEXT JUNE? 

My next Zoom presentation is in March and the topic is, Tragic, Sudden Deaths and How to find Peace within.

I share this talk with my first guest speaker on Zoom With June. She is a Bio-Metaphysical Therapist who has experienced within her close family suicide, fatal tragic death and murder. 

Review my books and work and contact me through  june ahern or sf coaching 

GHOST HUNT: WHAT TO EXPECT AND TAKE

IDEAS ON HOW TO MAKE YOUR GHOST HUNT 

SUCCESSFUL, ENJOYABLE AND SAFE

Throughout time people have been interested in the paranormal activity and want to experience the thrill of seeing and hopefully meeting a ghost.

After my 50 years of "seeing" and "talking" to spirits of the dead of all kinds entities it's a myriad of  emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually experiences. I like it.

It can be thrilling and spooky, scary and a real treat to talk to ghosts. I've experienced being hit, starched, and pushed. But more than not, just connecting with spirits feels right for me. 

Ready to explore ghostly happenings safely and successfully?

Below are some suggestions/guidelines from my book, "How to Talk With Spirits." In June 2021 a movie production is scheduled based on a murder case I worked on with the police.

In the book I go into detail but below hints will get you started. 

Chapter 11

GHOST HUNTS

There is something haunting in the light of the moon.

– Joseph Conrad –

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Begin where there has been reported ghost sighting. Cities and towns often have ghost tours of historical buildings tours and/or information when you can visit. 

Spirits, ghosts and other entities can show up anywhere at anytime these places can be exciting to visit: Schools and former sites of schools: Most poltergeist activity is found when younger people live or spend much of their time, like schools. 

Murder sites.

Graveyards/Cemeteries especially eerie to visit when dark. 

Battlefields––day or night are a great place to find ghosts because of the many, violent deaths, agony and fear that surrounds the area. There will be considerable psychic energy.  

Antique stores hold a wealth of psychic information! The objects for sale have a history. 

Attitude:

Show no fear. If you have fearful thoughts, don’t go on a ghost hunt.  It can attract mean-spirited entities. If you feel fear, stop, breathe, get a grip. If you’re really frightened, leave the area and come back when you have conquered your fear.

Keep an open mind, seek to validate by fact checking afterward. 

Keep a cheerful attitude and a positive frame of mind. 

Clear your mind, keep your ears open, and trust your intuition. 

There’s no need to find ghosts or call on them to come out. They are aware of you and watch you observing. 

Have a healthy skepticism. It’s a better attitude for finding evidence. 

Ignore any low life, earthbound spirits you come across. Don’t engage. Avoid it. If it bothers you, say loudly and with conviction, “QUIT IT!” or “BE GONE!”   

• Best Time for hunting

Although, any time is good for ghostly encounters, but if possible go on a ghost hunt when it’s dark; it’s quieter although I've interacted with spirits and ghosts during the daytime.

• Logistics.

Take a buddy. He or she can hold your hand if a ghost startles you or some mean person confronts you. Or help with camera and recording equipment, or to take notes and be a witness. 

Groups: Have everyone meet near the location to go over the plan for the ghost hunt and who'll handle the recording equipment or take notes.

• Practical things to take on your ghost hunt:

Flashlights for nighttime with spare batteries. Spirit activity can drain batteries very fast as well as turn off electrical lights, such as streetlights as evident onThe Haunted Bay investigations.

Good walking shoes. Graveyards and old buildings lend themselves to uneven walks.

A face mask if you’re going into an old building with debris, mold or dirt. On one of my ghost hunts (The Defenestration Building) we were assaulted by flocks of pigeons.

A first aid kit because you may trip in the dark or a nail could be sticking out in an old building.

Identification in case you are questioned by the police or caretaker of the property. In fact when going onto private property, you get permission first. 

Since you will be in a dark, spooky place take something to defend yourself, if need be, against muggers, or other living beings who might want to hurt you. Carry mace, pepper spray or a heavy-duty flashlight. Charge your cell phone in case you need to call for help.

• Cameras and Recording Devices

Take a digital recorder to record your reactions to certain areas, and or communication with the spirit or ghost. If you’re extremely lucky, you might catch an audio response of a ghost.

I learned the older mini recorders are the best for capturing ghostly sounds. Wishing I kept mine.

Bring a video and photo camera and/or recording devices if you hope to catch a ghost on camera.  

Check batteries and take extras. 

Take pictures anywhere and everywhere and examine the results later.

Sometimes you'll see an orb, mist or sparkles in your flash or other’s flashes. Take more pictures right there, you may be near a spirit.

• Common Ghost Sense: Tell the spirits not to follow you home and to remain where they are. Yes, this can and will happen. You don’t need clingy spirits in your home.

• You can watch my paranormal investigations in a documentary series with The Haunted Bay on YouTube, Amazon Prime and Asisaamericanmovies.com. When searching add with June Ahern to the Haunted Bay on YouTube. Please give it a thumbs up and a comment.

Read more about my four books, upcoming Zoom presentations, latest interview and more at june ahern dot com

CELEBRATE CHANGING TIMES: MABON; FALL EQUINOX

Soon the days will grow shorter and the nights, longer. 

How will your life activities change?

How will your energy be different?

Your spirit feels it. Do you?

Each season brings change not only weather wise but your body and mind health.

Celebrate today - September 22, 2020 - Fall or Autumn Equinox or to my pagan family - Mabon.

Mabon, a pagan is also known as the Harvest Home, is a reminder to reap what you sow, give thanks to Mother Earth for the bountiful foods she provides. Count your blessings no matter how insignificant they might seem: my eyes still see, my ears hear, my legs continue to carry me and so forth. 

And rest; prepare for the long, dark, cold times to come.

We busy humans rushing here and there. Even if not physically our minds race;  Internet searches are often frantic - something to meet the demand of the brain's numerous pathways going - where? 

If you stop for a moment you'll feel your body and psychological shifts changes and become aware of the overall effects of the season.

Slow down TV binge watching  - well maybe just The Haunted Bay, Amazon Prime with moi investigating ghosts. Instead, read, draw, journal and have STORY TELLING TIMES with friends and family! Maybe include photos with it.  Really, you'll like it. (Caution: make sure the stories don't turn into "roasts" or are demeaning.)

With the changing weather we go through seasonable colds, sniffles, allergies. One might conjure up illnesses during with  "OH NO! Is it Covid? or ask self,  "Why do I feel so tired? Why's my eyes, sinus' throat ache?"

The Fall weather often brings a weakening in the body. Care for it properly. 

Eat local vegetables and fruits in Fall colors for a healthier body. 

Hunker down, nap more and go to bed earlier: Sleep brings more vivid and perhaps meaningful dreams at this time. 

Pay attention, take note. Are they telling of future manifestations? 

Secure a good dream book to help interpret your dreams.

The spirits and ghosts are preparing will arrive in this season.

June Ahern's special All Hallow's Eve Halloween Presentation: Historical Story Telling, Ritual for Connecting with Ancestors plus Trick 'r' Treat Fun Prizes is coming up 10/29/20.

For more info see  june ahern dot com Review her books, YouTube ghost investigations links, contact info and more. 

June Ahern has authored four books. Her,  How To Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts, tells of her murder cases and has inspired a film in progress.

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NEW VENTURE: SPIRIT BOOK NOW AUDIOBOOK!

Fulling a goal successfully 

A Wonderful Feeling.

From some time I've been wanting to make one of my four books into an audiobook because I listen to them all the time. Do you?

It's my popular paranormal spiritual book, How to Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts

Links to it are below to the audio book. .

Some of my clients and students voiced their unhappiness that it is not I who narrated, but as I told them, if it wasn't this fine, articulate narrator I chose from a dozen applicants the audiobook never would have been.

To read a full book professionally produced it takes mucho patience, time and technical equipment and knowledge to edit and prepare. 

I applaud my narrator. She is professional and most easy to listen to. 

Check it out, let me know - 

Today this email regarding How to Talk to Spirits 
"I gifted this book to a friend of mine when someone she loved died and left her feeling depressed and a void in her life. My friend decided to consult a medium and told me how the book helped guide her through what to expect and also how to manage her expectations. She was raised Catholic and has some very devout people in her family and I think it took many years for her to consider the possibility that communication with people "on the other side" was possible and natural.

I'm grateful that you wrote it because it paved the way for not only her, but also those with whom she's close to open their minds. I see how the contribution of your book creates a postitive rippling-out effect even to the lives of people who may never go to a medium."

Audio Book Links: (book also in paperback & eBook Amazon, Smashwords.
How to Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts 

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B083ZKXHDX?pf_rd_p=ab873d20-a0ca-439b-ac45-cd78f07a84d8&pf_rd_r=B1H59TZM3KBTSZHE37P6 and/or Amazon directly: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B083ZKXHDX?pf_rd_p=ab873d20-a0ca-439b-ac45-cd78f07a84d8&pf_rd_r=807S4FC3N9YXMQSX4NHK

Other links:
website: http://www.juneahern.com and http://www.sfcoaching.com
YouTube The Haunted Bay Paranormal Video: Latest of the series https://youtu.be/PSUYJ2BzuJE
June Introduces her Books: https://youtu.be/EboHgqlXu30
Halloween Ritual Talk Show Interview YouTube: https://youtu.be/9SB_5BPswuU

Free Lecture, Pacifica, Ca Feb. 25th, 2020 NDE and Life After - this topic is also in my book.
https://sfbay.craigslist.org/pen/eve/7058612048.html

GHOST VOICES; FACTS CONFIRMED; PARANORMAL ACTIVITY

A good paranormal investigation 

with confirmed facts and voices

supports, life exists after the physical body. 

It's not easy to confirm the information given my non-living beings because records weren't always kept or just are difficult to find. 

But the producer of THE HAUNTED BAY PARANORMAL INVESTIGATION, Ying Liu, was able to find some records about the ghosts in the Eagle Building in Alameda, California. 

Supporting to this investigation was done by separate the Alameda Paranormal Investigators who brought their electronic equipment and for one of their first times caught clear as a bell voices of the dead.

Listen and let me know what do you think? 

Remember, I've told you and have written in both my non-fiction parapsychology books, I'm a healthy skeptic about all of this. So, when I heard the voices I asked Ying, "Really? Were you there?"

Yes, it is true she told me. 

Watch, Listen, Learn, Question and Let me know what you think. Please give it a thumbs up, comment and subscribe. 

YouTube https://youtu.be/PSUYJ2BzuJE

Check out my How to Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts available paperback and ebook. And my complete consumer guide, eBook only at this time:

The Timeless Counselor: The Best Guide to a Success Psychic Reading.

WITNESSING MURDER: PSYCHIC RECOUNT

In my book How to Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts 

I share many personal spirit and ghost encounters, 

most of which are pleasant and healing,

but some, like my murder cases are not at all pleasant to experience. 

People are often curious about how a psychic/medium, like myself, get insights to murders and what it's like for them experiencing it. 

It's not easy to talk about. It terrifying. Sad. And ugly to witness.

I know because I've been psychically murdered as well as witnessed murders.

I've worked with family and police with my psychic impressions of murder victims. In respect of the family I won't give the name of the victims or information leading to discovery.

Unfortunately, I learned, the experience of being a part of a murder investigation doesn't always leave your psyche or life easily. 

Two cases I experienced continue pop up throughout years for some reason or the other. 

Like a chance meeting of the child of one victim and an interest of a documentary producer.

Working on murder investigations is incredibly sad. You see a tragic end of someone's life.  A person hurt beyond what you'd ever want to imagine.  It will often continue to be a mental, emotional, physical and psychic disturbance for many years. 

My first witness to a murder took years to solve and finally communicating with the victim to envision her having some peace and healing of spirit.

My first murder case: How I became involved:  I didn’t know the victim nor her family but a friend's friend knowing I was a psychic medium asked her if I had any insights. 

With that question I received psychic information. It came through a most terrifying dreams – actually more of a nightmare.

This case was about a horrendous murder that include rape of a mother whose child was in the home at the time.

During the dream I was the victim. Now, if you think that’s most interesting, don’t.  It's not interesting. It's horrible.

It was terrorizing! Fighting for your life, stumbling over furniture in terror - hoping to escape being killed. The smell of the killer, the touch, the fighting back - for your life! 

The pounding of my heart so loud it drove out the screams.

Only upon waking did I slowly become aware I was not the victim. I wasn't dead. Shaken and trembling I felt physically ill - drained. 

I regrouped and was able to remove my physical reaction from the victim although couldn’t shake the emotional fear nor the mental images. I related all to the victim's family, the house, furniture, what happened, how it happened They confirmed all my details were correct. I drew a picture of the killer. It was as they and the police suspected.

In subsequent dreams I could “see” the scene from a distance, as though viewing but not being. The victim told me more about her situation, her life - what was going on - she shared her great sadness over being separated from her daughter. She still pointed to the suspect.

It was not as she or the family or the police thought but could never prove. Twenty years later and with DNA proof the murderer was a serial killer of several people, mostly women. An evil man who died in prison but was never charged of these murders rather was in prison for burglary. 

These dark visions and spirit interactions can lead to attachments. When you interact with low life vampire entities and evil humans if you're not careful they can attach their energy to you. 

When a murder is experienced by psychics mediums they also deal with the darkness of the killer and that fear and ugliness can create a sense of paranoia. Worrying, will I be next? Was it a prophecy? I sought a couple of psychics to help me resolve my anxieties.  I asked them why had the spirit pointed to the wrong suspect and both had their own theories: she somehow blamed the person said one. The other said, she was showing you a person she needed to be there to save her. 

I've never fully recovered from, in any way, adding to the misery of the family from sharing information that was accurate. My next case would be much more helpful with the conviction of the murderer who is still in prison.

I worked on a few more murder and missing persons cases with police involvement but no longer wanting that dark energy, retired from doing cases. 

Read more about attachments in a previous blog: https://witchgoddesses.blogspot.com/2017/10/spirit-attachment-when-spirit.html  

More about my book and me at june ahern dot com. Books available on Amazon, Smashwords and autographed copies through me at my website. 

ANGEL NETWORK: ARE YOU A MEDIUM?

Are you a medium? 

I'll talk about what can happen 

when you are contacted by or wish to contact 

a spirit or a ghost.

Listen at http://tobtr.com/11544243  

Radio interview Tuesday, 15th of October 2019,  I'll talk about what it's like being a medium and later answer questions from the audience (call-in to the show) then lead a meditation to connect with departed loved ones. 

6 p.m. PST, 8 CST, 9 EST and wherever you are in the world - your hours.

Review my book, How to Talk With Spirits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts and my other three books at june ahern. com.

Watch my introduction of my books on YouTube (link below) where you're also find my ghost hunts with The Haunted Bay Paranormal Investigations with June Ahern.

Links:  Intro of June Ahern's Books  https://youtu.be/EboHgqlXu30
Condor Club, San Francisco, CA - The Infamous Strip Joint https://youtu.be/OR_33Vbjc90

PARANORMAL INVESTIGATIONS WITH FACTS.

RESEARCH FOR FACTS of PARANORMAL INVESTIGATIONS

When I'm part of a paranormal investigation I always asked not to be given any history or if any past investigations findings.

I leave the research to the producer and her team.

In my book, How to Talk With Sprits: Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts, I encourage readers to keep a healthy skepticism with an open mind and research for facts.

Research of the past isn't easy. It takes hours of looking for records and those weren't kept as they are today - computerized.

But the producer of the Haunted Bay Paranormal Investigations methodically gets as many facts as she can though visiting the main library (yes, going through written, documented records in books and old newspaper stories) and also the internet.

In one of my latest investigations I got the confirmation right there from the owner of the site. Unfortunately, this part was cut from the video: In one room I connected with a spirit named Barbara and when I asked the owner he said Wow! That was a woman who believed what we were doing here (the space where a business is conducted.) She left us money to continue when we were low on funds.

It's good to get confirmation. If you're going to visit a medium or are part of a seance, make sure when you ask about a spirit that you have your facts in order.

Enjoy. YouTube https://youtu.be/3k_CDTMcJJA

Meet me in this video where you'll hear a brief synopsis of my four books and learn what sex and words have in common  https://youtu.be/EboHgqlXu30

MATCHING NAME: NUMEROLOGY W/TAROT

J = 1

Numerology + the Tarot's Major Arcana cards = images of my birth name.

These cards reflect my name: 

June. J=1; U=3; N = 5; E=5 total 14 = 5 total 

U = 3

What would you think about me from those pictures? My personality?

N & E = 5 

Total = 1

When I was young I didn’t like my name. The little ditties and jokes: like June is  bursting out all over.

My mother suggested I change it.

Tried Jackie (Jackie Kennedy was First Lady and I, a big fan of her).
Eventually, ended up keeping my own.

There was a big hoopla naming me June. My mother looked outside at a sunny June day (when I was born) and decided to name me June.

My father didn’t like it either saying it was a pagan, heathen name and not a saint’s as was the tradition in a Catholic family to name a child after a saint.

This contention between my parents over my name led to my first novel, The Skye in June.

Later, I told him I’d be the first Saint June. Of course I didn’t say e a Catholic one, but a Wiccan/pagan saint. I’m working on it being saintly - but....

June is derived from the Roman goddess Juno, the goddess of marriage – the Great Juno Moneta guarded over the finances of the empire and had a temple on the Arx, which was the mint. I’d like to be Mama Bank.

June also means youth - forever young. Oh yeah, that'd be me. LOL

Names hold a message - an announcement of you to the world.

What does your name mean?

What’s the story behind your naming?

How do you feel about your name?

Your name has a power and the sound of it influences the ears of others.

Say your name aloud a few times, in different tones and inflections. Sit quietly and chant it softly.

Feel the vibration within your body.

Does it ring true for how see yourself?

People change or shorten names  to match self –image and to influence the reactions from others
toward them.

Five: denotes change, flexibility, movement, can be scattered and chaotic at times. Yeah, a double
Gemini! No kidding - four of us vying for a result; associated with adventure, travel, education and flux.

Seems to sum me up:

I wonder what your name would look like in images?

My magic name is a totally different number vibration although I won't reveal it to you.

More about June Ahern, her books and her paranormal investigations, www.juneahern.com